As change makers, there are times when things don't go our way. The campaign, project or initiative we have been working on hits a snag, derails and maybe even falls off a cliff altogether.
When things take an unwanted turn, we often create enemy images. We find someone or something outside ourselves to blame when things don't go our way.
But why do we think it helps if we define our identity in opposition to another person or group we don’t like or are conditioned to think of as less than or inferior?